He has been very distant he will text me a few times throughout the day, face time sometimes. I was pissed! When he wants to get back with you he will start by checking in on you. All his other actions need to line up with what he says otherwise you have no reason to believe him. It may reveal to you how these guys think. I stay the night every night I dont have my son. My case is just really unique and complicated. Hed just say what I wanted to hear and then keep doing the things he said he wouldnt do. One minute you are dating your beautiful and romantic Pisces man and the next, things just seem a little off. Later I texted him and asked when his birthday was. I told him its fine if he got someone else not in competition with anybody Ill take myself out the competition so they can be happy, but he just denied everything so its the lies that bothers me if he just told me the truth I would have felt better but he lied and that is what Im not fine with. and we fell for eachother. Im sorry you learned the hard way sweetheart. He then FaceTime me and asked me if we could be exclusive. Maybe he is afraid to commit but until he figures himself out, hes not going to take a leap into a relationship. It sounds like you need more work on yourself and some healing so that no matter who you are with, you are able to process emotions better. I know this is long and full of fluff but I had to tell someone. He never took me out but say he loves me. Now at the time I was talking to other people and he told me he was I didnt really care cause I had a lot going on. One day I called him dude and he said dude?!?!?! Youll be able to tell if hes being honest or is giving you total crap. I told him one night I want to know. Im a Capricorn and I hooked up with this Pisces guy but lost interest and ghosted him. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. That really stinks. You need to be perfectly honest with him and ask him if there is someone else in his life. And as many people may think that he might be using me to get a visa here. Pisces men can be liars, but it is a case-by-case scenario. Oh and Im an aquarius lady. Then 2020 he asked me temporarily if he could stay at my place til he got on his feet. I later told him he was mine in a text. When a Pisces man isnt committed and is using you; hell flake out quite often. I said Im going to this bar to get a drink and if you want to talk meet me there. He doesnt want anyone prying into his business and we all know that on social media, the second you change your relationship status, everyone is all over it asking questions. He introduced me to his family and friends. He loves having her at home. I wouldnt say a Pisces man is a player! I guess he doesnt realize that he is only hurting himself by behaving this way. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. Sometimes he may legitimately have something come up and needs to change but when you see hes doing it often, you know something is going on and its time to perhaps put your foot down. It might not even be your fault, but he will conveniently blame you for something because he expects you to fix his problems for him. I have worked tirelessly to figure out a way to fix all relationships with Pisces men. I have caught him in so many lies and w expert at reversing it on me to make it seem like its my fault when I know its not. So sorry sweetheart. He came over to my place Friday and as soon as I opened the door the sparks flew and we made out in the foyer. I feel hurt by what he said and take it personally. We talked kissed cuddled and he performed oral sex on me. The Pisces Man. In my experience, most of the men who ghosted me came back always with a bad excuse and an apology. Weve been together for roughly 2 years and met in the most unusual place. Most recently he lost a close childhood friend and his brothers one year death anniversary is coming up so I wanted to do something to get him out the house so he wouldnt be said, all week he has been short with me and not engaging with me in text which isnt like him at all.he will reply but wont engage in conversation, when I called him out he told me how much he miss me and likes me but he doesnt want to talk right now bc hes down and he doesnt want me to think hes avoiding me but him being around me right now is pointless because hes sad. It is difficult for us people of other signs, Scorpio in my case, to understand how their mind thinks like that, but they do, and all we can do is to observe from afar the strangeness of this mindset. I wish you all the best! I dont get it. I wish you all the best! I noticed he would talk about his ex often and still was in contact and I called him out and said if you want to be with your ex then go. Watch for everything Ive mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if hes talking himself up for something he wont ever deliver. He helps me with my two kids and helps me with chores around the house and will even tell me to take a break so he can cook and clean and stuff. Kohen acted like he didnt care and kind of ignored it. He would do all PDA in front of friends but nothing when we are alone. Well we started talking again as friends in July of that same year. How To Know When A Pisces Man Is Done With You, 1. That makes no sense. I do want to be married but idk sometimes I cant tell his mood because he doesnt like me being overly mushy love with him. He has to first grow up nd accept responsibility before he forms a family. However, he stood up a bit after to go outside and smoke (previously he did it inside with the window open), so I was like is everything ok?. Because of his sun sign. I am not reaching out this time. Tell him how you feel about him, show him by showering him with affection and cuddles (they love cuddles). When he acts flaky let him know how terrible it makes you feel, this may make him think twice about the way he is treating you. And then when he send his mother a picture of something she wanted him to buy I saw a girls name, instantly my mood shifted. Like I I helped him go to therapy for his depression, we talked about certain thing and I let him know . Then he said, I kept meaning to tell you but I forgot. Then we talked some more and the conversation ended about 30 minutes later. I feel like we connected very well on all possible levels. Men that feel guilty will tell you things like "you didn't deserve that." They might say that they feel bad. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. He would flake and we stopped talking then he popped back up and apologized. Naturally, hes likely to deny it if you call him out so dont be surprised if he does. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you've asked him what he's been up to; he is either feeling he doesn't have to answer to you or he knows he's being dishonest. Ive been reading most of your posts to get a better sense of my Piscean man. I said no. Every person is different and that remains true for Pisces as well. I told him to was too soon and we should let it develop. Hi I met my pisces man and started dating 5 months ago. He always says he never spent time with his mother as a little boy. I needed to say something about the texting though, I get crazy with over thinking. I questioned him, and asked him why he needed such a large amount, he told me, but then later said it I was being too inquisitive, and asking too many questions, and he felt like the questioning was like a mother talking to a son. Think back to moments like your first kiss, the first time you hung out together, or even that fateful day you locked eyes in class. This is pretty normal sweetheart. He seemed to be fine with it and engaged in conversations. I told him let me in to heal you, he said he will be happy if I heal him, should I just continue with him or distance myself from him. Help please? They might not come out for an entire day. Its just so confusing why he wont commit but acts as if hes committed? so I can hear your voice. But he will always text me. He gets quiet but if I call him out on something he will I guess be honest. Issue with him is that he wouldnt tell me if he was upset. Hes dual natured x 2. They are amazing but its getting that trust as you mentioned is what makes it last. Ask him how hes feeling about the two of you. He hugged me, and he said he will call me during the week to see how Im doing, I agreed but dont know how I feel about this. Treat others (even your ghosting ex) with kindness if you want to be treated kindly. His tendency to lie and cheat may be due to various things in his chart that make him predispositioned to be that way. He sees no value in reaching out and trying to talk anything through. He says he has much love for me and will always be there for me. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st) You were a sarcastic ass. It seems unfair to me. Do things you love and spend time with people you care for. Its great to hear from you. If Im perfect according to him whats the problem then? It got ridiculous during that convo, he only texted me once a dayI finally said something and he never responded. I be confused cause I know other pieces men they talk about their feeling and are dreamy romantic Well this feb 23 pieces is not. Then he said, Wbu, what kind of music do you like? It was weird because he never asked me a question before especially after I asked one. Ask him if you let him back in if he will be with you only. Ghosted, I didnt bug him or anything, because Im understanding maybe he has got some stuff he needs to sort out. Suddenly, A Pisces man just messaged me out of nowhere, stating, he follows his heart and thought I would be a nice person to talk to. We go fishing all the time. The Pisces Man Plays Mind Games With You, 2. Well, there are always ways you can fix this and take back the relationship you worked so hard for! When we break up I was already dating someone suddenly he come back. If youre reading this and thinking of getting involved with a Pisces man, make sure that you give him time to really think if he wants to commit to you. So I thought to myself I need closure because he still didnt admit to seeing someone else. And gave ever excuse we why couldnt! Hes the two fish as a Pisces. Alright so I absolutely agree with your therapist. If someone ghosted on you, it's because you seemed disinterested, or were making it seem as though you wouldn't have space for that person in your life. He sounds confused and maybe a little immature. well, Ive known this Pisces 4 years prior when I first met him 4 years ago he was 10 and I was 9 we were young and clueless Im a libra by the way anyways 4 years later!! Something like Hope you are well. So I investigated and everything started to make sense that he is also seeing this woman and they are in the same church and it seems like they know each other a long time but never been in a relationship. Libra and Pisces Compatibility - 5 years. You can also read my book Pisces Man Secrets for more insight. Watch him, listen to him, and watch for the signs a Pisces man is playing you. That part will be up to you sweetheart. 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested Source: Favim As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! He did not tell me when I bought the i-tunes card he needed it to be $500 dollars. And he had decided I am the one to spend his life with. I hope you ca clarify this. When I tried to understand what exactly turned him off and explain myself in case of misunderstanding, he didnt seem to like it very much, he said this is my gut feeling, what would you do if you were me? I said in general I give some time to people. Im confused and we virgos are big worriers. There is a terrible side to your Pisces man, and that is he can be really non-committal and nonchalant about things. So I text him at noon and say so no more morning texts? And he response is so Im the only one who can text? Implying it would be nice if I texted too. If you have apologized then he probably just needs a little time to process what has happened. Bring Him Back Down to Reality. Should I text him again? I didnt think that I liked him, but I did think he was cute. I think that in time hell finally give in and give it the title you want. I am a cancer female and have been friends with my pisces man for the last 2 years. Being berated for ANYTHING should never happen. The miscarriages were probably the universe saying dont have kids with this guy at least not now. So 3 weeks went by and I know he was back from the weekend with his parents where he supposedly talked to them about us. Did something happen that made you change your mind?. It will break your heart cause they are always lying. Right now youre giving off mixed signals to him by telling him that its too soon to be exclusive but then now wondering if he has a girlfriend. This should help you decide to cut him loose or to try to work it out with him. Incredible. Why would that change because of distance? Make sure you read all the way until the end. 5. He always talks about us traveling and doing this and that but nothing so far, he still says it but nothing. He came back and was awkward, I asked again if everything ok and he said the problem is you are overthinking, if I say that I feel now like going to sleep on the couch, this doesnt have to do with you and then we slept. He got a 2nd job without discussing what I think. I felt that he was playing with me, Last night he texted me saying hes busy and gonna go to bed early for these few days. I would just start doing your own thing and not acting like this is something. 4 months into dating he said he loved me but I couldnt say it back. That will take a lot of work. Thats a first! Sunday came he went to church and coming back he told me he needs to complete his studies. HE found me!!! There after he didnt see me for 2 months which was so weird and unusual and I tried my best to be positive and patient with him. About 30 mins before 10 he texted and said he needs a raincheck because he has to go out of town. Hopefully hell agree and then youll be able to work through it. My pisces man blocked me for a month and unblocked me. Yikes! However; some of them are out there and are looking to have fun until they find the one. I think you already know the answer and you need to follow it. It must be because they are so sweet, romantic, and sensitive. So said I said youre the one who said youll text you in the morning. He never responded after that. He would talk to me everyday even do cute little things like want to hold my hand, always give me a hug, and even compliment me but it would always seem like he was trying to play me. Then again if hes lonely enough, he may play with you a bit to make himself feel good again. Kohen is quiet but funny and witty, and also a little shy. If you worry about your safety, you should perhaps get a restraining order. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. Hed just do something petty to get vengeance. He wants to see how far he can push things with you and how much he can get away with. I really want to keep in contact with you, but if you dont want to accept a friendship for now and it will make things difficult I will also understand. His insecurities got the best of him and he's too weak to even say "It's not you, it's me." ARIES. This is where his actions become more important than his words. If you would like to talk, Im here. I actually feel like I have found my soulmate (he also tells me the same too). Unfortunately, this is one of the tactics he uses to really get under your skin. He once told me I was his soulmate. He is a very social person and he would never spend time alone with me. I was still a bit skeptical and was not being completely honest with him because I didnt tell him that I have a daughter. Im the only girl he constantly brought with his family. The last pisces that i dated seemed too busy for me everyday even for a single text. Give him some space and time. It hurts. As sad as he was he did not want to let me go at all. Be careful sweetheart. It will seem as though he never existed except your heart will feel the sadness. Believe it or not, there are signature things that a Pisces man will do or say that will show you what is going on with him. I was talking to a Pisces man but he is such a player he will spend 4 days with me and the very same day he will go home his ex she comes over she leaves her panties there at his house and he says she not his girl but she helps him out ? It doesnt happen often that I find a guy I can speak the same language with, on the other hand, I think that if we keep our contact, I will hope that he will change his mind and I may also feel he uses me as his consultant. I just dont want to get hurt again. You may be dating a Pisces man for a while now, but things just dont feel the same as once did. This will be casual, just to see how you are doing; however, then he will start checking in on you more frequently. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. Hes a really nice guy but he always seems confused. Wishing you the best! If you told me youre swamped with certs, I wouldve understood. Talk to him! I don't literally mean by mistake, anyway. Im just now figuring out his mood swings. He would also wait outside my school and work for hours. i havent heard back today at all. He should take the time he needs or wants on days he hasnt already promised to get together with you or at least communicate with you that he has been feeling overwhelmed and needs some space to breathe. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); My name is Anna Kovach, and Im a Relationship Astrologer. To have your Pisces man see you as his Queen once again! Sometimes I cant help but feel like him being a Pisces and saying all these things is just his dreamy side. So the Friday we arranged that I will sleep over by him. I think what you need to do is leave him alone for a bit. He said everything I needed to hear. to build trust. Being a Scorpio, things are easier and faster to determine, either I like the guy or I dont, I use logic to analyze myself in the case I start idealizing some past relationship and can see the truth for what it is. He shouldnt be worried about what other people think otherwise why is he with you? We connected on a Wednesday, he would text and call me all day long. But until the two of you have the conversation about taking things to the next step, he feels like he is allowed to keep his options open. He will take everything out on you if you give him the chance. i think my confidence intimated him because i have a very sarcastic way of talking and i think it triggered him idk. Panic can make you do and say the wrong things. Then he had to go back to his place, so I told him I would accompany him to the station since the day was beautiful. Believe me when I say the sex was and still is absolutely amazing!!!! 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