Sissay spent 12 years with the Greenwoods. They refused. I looked at their faces to see if I had said the right thing. I forgave her to her face. Overall, the experience was good, he says, but you dont feel like youve really lived your childhood. Even though his new catering business is thriving, Bramble often feels impostor syndrome. I have no one to dispute or agree on the memory of me, good or bad. He learned that his real name was not Norman. Lucy Sheen was one of 106 Hong Kong Chinese foundlings who were adopted by white British families in the 1950s and 60s. The project is the brainchild of poet and activist Lemn Sissay, himself a graduate of the system, who wanted to create an image of successful lives as an inspiration for the many thousands of children struggling in care today. I just have to keep mentally strong and reverse those doubts., Participation and projects lead at Pure Insight and business owner, Natalie Hirst spent eight years living in foster care in Greater Manchester and had a mixed experience, but her resilience helped her to develop the strength and skills to overcome many challenges. No brothers and sisters. Raise me with sunshine, bathe me in light: Lemn Sissay. The care-experienced movement is shaping some of the thinking that people in care are talented and have so much potential. At the age of 17, after a childhood in a foster family followed by six years in care homes, Norman Greenwood was given his Birth Certificate. We can go on to do better if were just given the same life chances as other people. By the time Sissay was approaching adolescence, cracks in their relationship had started to appear. He holds an English nationality and belongs to Black ethnicity. Im getting to exorcise lots of demons., Now writing a memoir about her journey from care to Cambridge University, by day Kasmira Kincaid works as a fundraiser for Shelter. His biological mother had traveled to from Ethiopia to England in the late 1960s and because she was pregnant and single was pushed to put her baby up for adoption. The sculpture commemorates the abolition of the transatlantic slave trade in 1807, which began the process of the emancipation of slaves throughout the British Empire. These moments stuck in my memory. This is Lemn's story: a story of neglect and determination, misfortune and hope, cruelty and triumph. Lemn Sissay was born in the village of Billinge, near Wigan, in 1967 to an Ethiopian mother. I was 10 and we were off to a wedding in our new clothes. They were my parents and I loved them unconditionally. I was lucky to have a loving upbringing, but I find Im never really happy with what Ive done, he says. Lemn Sissay is the author of five poetry collections: Tender Fingers in a Clenched Fist (1988); Rebel Without Applause (1992); Morning Breaks in the Elevator (1999):The Emperor's Watchmaker (2000), and Listener (2008). But I felt different. All I knew was that my birth mother, the woman who had my face and my blood, was from Africa and Africa was where poor people were. But they were telling me that I didnt love them because if they could convince me that I didnt love them, they would have a reason to put me into care. 248 ratings29 reviews. But its a bit of a B-movie of an existence. Why would the social worker, Jean Jones, say that my mum and dad are seen by Norman as his parents? Instead of celebrating success despite the odds, we urgently need to improve the odds.. It was only recently that one of her brothers acknowledged what shed gone through and apologised for failing to confront it. The summer variety show hes directing with his students at Bird College, in Sidcup, south-east London, includes a song from the pickpocketing musical Oliver!, poignantly titled Boy for Sale. It was Lemn Sissay. During that time he also became a drug addict and notched up 33 criminal convictions, he says. One thing many share is dark memories of the shame and stigma they suffered. Cato was born on the Caribbean island of Grenada and adopted as a baby by white parents in Brighton, along with his brother. It was amazing to find him and realise where I get my activism from., Social work leader, campaigner and charity trustee. Its listening to care-experienced young people Ive been working with that has empowered me to talk openly about it., Donna Ludford applied to become lord mayor of the City of Manchester to raise aspirations for young people in the care system. The installation, Superman Is a Foundling, is another of Sissays initiatives, drawing attention to the ubiquity of the orphan in popular culture, and it momentarily shocks the poet and performer Luke Wright to find his own history reflected in a literary trope. Growing up, the moment someone found out I was care-experienced, theyd make negative assumptions, says Lucy Reynolds, who had moved in and out of care eight times before being adopted aged seven. I wanted to be in care to get out of that situation. His experience in childrens homes and foster families between Surrey and Lancashire was excellent. To help others like her, Button has co-founded calling4gr8ness.org, a programme supporting care-experienced young adults in the creative industries. Secrets are the stonesThat sink the boatTake them out, look at themThrow them out and float. Sissay realised he'd been stolen. I loved the Market, the Flower Park, the Big Park, the books. This was the beginning of empty Christmas time and hollow birthdays. He was badly bullied at school and his education suffered terribly, but he soldiered on and enrolled at Bird College aged 22 to study dance and musical theatre. Now my foster mother sends me birthday cards. The heartache and anger of his youth alternate in his poetry with lighter, whimsical aphorisms and celebrations of place . She showed him a letter that she had written in 1968, 4 months after he had been born, in which she pleaded, to no avail, that he be given back to her to live with his own people. I loved him. Being in foster care is probably the primary reason why I had a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, says Derek Owusu, whose award-winning debut novel, That Reminds Me, explores the after-effects of a childhood in care. Books were a way to escape from the madness around me, be that foster care, family, or residential homes. Yemarshet Sissay came to England from her homeland, in 1966, planning to become a teacher so she could bring her new found skills back with her to Ethiopia to teach in schools there. His affectionate nickname was Bunty. An encounter with Sylvester Stallone in the Sinai desert, while working as an extra on Rambo III, prompted Mark Riddell to turn his turbulent care experience into a force for change. Its not a shameful thing any more. Hoyle went into care as a young teenager and at 18 he set up a charity for care leavers called A National Voice: We campaigned to stop children in care leaving with their belongings in bin bags. Now he works for North Yorkshire county council identifying and implementing ways that we can make life better for children in care. Why would I think anything else? Of course I loved them. Youre on your guard. You dont love us, you dont want to be with us? All of this happened the day after they had made this call to the social worker. I said to Norman Mills in the car: I know this is my fault and I will ask God for forgiveness. He kept his eyes on the road, but his hands gripped tighter on the wheel. His mother was a student at the time of his birth who had come from Ethiopia to study in Bracknell City, England. Best known for designing clothes for Diana, Princess of Wales, Bruce Oldfield was born in Durham and fostered at 18 months by a seamstress, Violet Masters, who taught him how to sew. I just felt I had to hide it, says Sophie Willan, creator and star of Almas Not Normal, of her experience in care she spent much of her childhood in foster care in Bolton. I put it to him that it was the only home the boy had known.. Norman Greenwood was given his birth certificate. The experience was marked by contradictions relating to her race and religion: I remember I had chickenpox and I couldnt go to the mosque, but we were allowed to go and see the Queen as she was visiting the town. Encouragement from teachers spurred her on to become an artist (she was nominated for the Turner prize in 2007). They wanted me to ask God for forgiveness and through him I will learn to love them. Tomorrow came and I said it with pride because I thought I had found the answer they wanted me to find: I mustnt love you, I said. Lemn was born in 1967; two months later, he was taken into care. They were religious, and theyd never had [to deal with] an adolescent before. And then Lemn spoke elegantly and measuredly as he delivered a cathartic unburdening of his formative years. The documents armed Sissay with the necessary proof that "the government had stolen my childhood.". Birthdays, Christmas, weekends, holidays I have to be the best family that I can be, to myself. Lemn Sissay reads from his new collection, Gold From the Stone, at Musicport festival in Whitby, 21-23 October, The poet talks about how his foster parents put him into care at the age of 12 and left him there, and finding his birth mother, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Lemn Sissay They treated me as if I was a Trojan horse sent into the family to destroy it., Lemn Sissay: My foster parents were good people who did bad things. He felt that Normans successes were too many for [his brother] Christopher to cope with. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and Addis Ababa. Google "Lemn Sissay" and all the hits will be about him. He advocates for children in the local authority's care and is involved in organisations concerning their welfare. 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His parents, unaccustomed to dealing with a young man, said he had the devil inside him and had him put in a childrens home. He left school at 15 with one GCSE and two CSEs. This is the story of being stolen by the state and his 17 years in local authority care. I know so many care-experienced people whove had that further experience of being homeless, being a rough sleeper, living in hostels, sofa-surfing, all that kind of stuff.. Sissay spent 18 years as a child of the state. Libraries were my hallowed space, and librarians were kind guardians who gave me orphan tales. Now, as part of her PhD, Canning is writing her own novel, entitled Hiraeth, about a 16-year-old orphan leaving a childrens home in the mid-1970s. Over the next few weeks the childrens home filled up with mainly teenagers. I asked when my clothes and toys would be arriving. I was excited because the family meeting was just me and Mum and Dad. These are social graces that help us to move on.. She calls on the phone and and I walk in the garden as we speak. He put me gently in the car. Ripped away from his Ethiopian mother in infancy, he endured over a decade of mistreatment and wilful cruelty in the British care system. It was a beautiful thing for me when I found my birth mother, but it was complicated too. That was strange for a while. I stumbled across hazelnuts on a recent walk on Dentdale in Cumbria for a TV documentary. It upset my brother when he realised what he hadnt taken on board., Photography/film rep, exec producer and consultant, In the 1990s Loo How, who was adopted at six weeks by a very Christian white family in Bristol, went on a journey to track down her biological parents. He asked me to yelp so it sounded like I was being punished. His mother couldn't cope with him and his brother so they were put into the care of . Sheen has made a documentary about her experience, a powerful study of cultural displacement and linguistic disenfranchisement called Abandoned Adopted Here. Several people point out that they are the lucky ones anyone who has been in a care home will know many who fell by the wayside. To mark National Poetry Day this month, poet and author Lemn Sissay muses on a country childhood of mixed blessings - and why this year he is more hopeful than ever. Yes, you did.. As with most brothers, Christopher and I fought like snakes on each others territory. You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey. I believed her. We wrestled. Today, we are as close as she can allow herself to be. It was Lemn Sissay. We fought with unbridled determination the way brothers do. Something pinched her features. He was an introvert. She is now a psychodynamic psychotherapist and the director of two companies. I wanted to tackle the sometimes subconscious, but overall still damaging stereotypes often perpetuated in the media, such as care-experienced people not achieving or succeeding in life due to their background. The exhibition Superheroes, Orphans & Origins: 125 Years in Comics runs there until 28 August, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Top to bottom, left to right: Clare Gorham, Keith Saha, Michelle Brown, Kriss Akabusi, Jim Goddard, Allan Jenkins (on the right), Stanley J Browne, Siroun Button, Martin Figura, Mark Riddell, Paolo Hewitt, Lucy Sheen, Lemn Sissay, Olumide Popoola, Paul Cookson, Lennox Cato (on the right), Sylvan Baker, Axa Hynes, Barrie Sharpe. She was taken into a mother and baby unit as a 12-year-old mum, and had to fight to keep her daughter. I was a deceitful one. None of us have ever gone back to look for our birth families. But his writing tells a subtly different story: And so, nearly half a century later/ nearer to the end of the journey/ than the beginning,/ those questions arise/ and may remain unanswered/ but arise anyway.. He received his MBE in 2010. In 2017 he launched the Lemn Sissay. I was causing problems for everyone. After a 31-year campaign he received them in 2015. A lot of transracial adoptees talk about how racist their white families are, but actually, its racism that affects them too, and the way they see the world, says Rowe. Lemn Sissay, one of our best-loved poets, was fostered as a baby. He said, and we almost believed him, that he had shushed the restaurant and then stood on the table and forcefully delivered the poem. Thank you to Jude Kelly, and John McGrath. Before joining digital arts platfrom WhyNow as creative director last year, Janet Lee worked for the BBC, where she was the editor of programmes including Imagine and The Culture Show and a producer on Desert Island Discs. When Luis De Abreu was nine, he travelled from Madeira to join his mother in Jersey, where shed been working for several years. But I will ask God for forgiveness and learn to love you. This was the perfect answer. This is an edited extract from My Name Is Why: a Memoir by Lemn Sissay, published by Canongate on 29 August at 16.99. He was British and Ethiopian. Not even a Bible. This is what I have chosen. Wherever I lived, my care experience included libraries and reading, and without them I wouldnt be here, says Rosie Canning, who was put into care in London at six weeks. None of this is your fault. Through my lived experience of being adopted, I co-founded a mental-health organisation called Adoptee Futures, which is led by adoptees and which centres adoptees. I appreciate it.. As much as you read this book and are in shock (or not) at how this young black child was dragged through a problematic system and feel angry at the injustices he has faced, you can't . It's Mrs Catherine Greenwood, my foster mother of the first eleven years. My body will skip around the table like a sprite on the solid stone floor. Wallwein, who received an MBE in 2018 for services to spoken word poetry, had been in 13 homes before writing her first play at 17. 31 December 1979: Message left after Christmas saying that the Greenwoods wanted Norman removed without further notice. Social workers report, 31 December 1979: Spoke to foster parents on telephone. Interspersing readings from his new collectionGold from the Stonewith moving and raw recollections of his childhood, Lemn transfixed the audience. Poet, playwright, novelist, memoirist, radio broadcaster, documentary maker, public speaker, Chancellor of the University of Manchester. If they were asking me whether I loved them or not, and if they were the ones who taught me about love, then maybe I didnt love them, otherwise they wouldnt ask. At 12, Norman was sent away to childrens homes. The internationally acclaimed poet and playwright Lemn Sissay OBE shares the story of his life by recalling five memorable dishes. It's the first time in many years . Where they are, we have been; where we are, they can go, says Akabusi who, like several others in the room, found his way through by joining the army. Its radically changed who I am.. Just me. He was taken into long-term foster care in Wigan and named Norman Greenwood. Its one of the things thats made me the happiest recently, the number of people who will happily associate themselves with their care experience, says Jonny Hoyle. He recalled his days growing up in Leigh, near Atherton where he was the only black in the village and his time walking the streets of Daubhill selling cleaning products door to door. I hadnt realised then but none of them would contact me ever again for the rest of my life. Adopted as a baby, Jeanette Winterson grew up in a strict Pentecostalist family in Lancashire. I spent my life searching for my birth family. Born in 1967, Sissay was the child of an Ethiopian mother who was forced to give up her son against her will; he was fostered by a white couple from Lancashire who sent him back into care aged. We passed the butchers and the chemists and Wigan Road and passed the Flower Park and the main park, the junior school and Byrchall High School, and then unfamiliar territory unfolded before me: the East Lancashire Road. Lemn Sissay was stolen by the state. Poet Lemn Sissay and actress Lisa Faulkner became friends on Twitter, united by one common interest: children in the British care system. I just felt this overwhelming relief when I found out the truth, he says, because I was always told, they didnt want you. For Fretwell, writing and making films is a way of dealing with both his care experience and the racism he suffered growing up in Bognor Regis. I was nine. I was just nudging into adolescence at the time, and theyd recently had their third child, Helen. There's only one person in the world called Lemn Sissay. Lemn means 'why' in Amharic, the official language of Ethiopia, where celebrated poet Lemn Sissay's mother was from. In that situation, a mother doesnt see her child, she is wrenched into the memory of the father. He said he now tries to put all his energy into projects that help children in care. Here is an extract from the book. In care from 11 to 17, Ben Ashcroft moved 51 times between foster parents, residential care, secure units, secure training centre, and finally a young offenders unit. "I found out about your past and then I heard you on Desert Island Discs," Lisa told Lemn . Christopher was their first-born, but I was their first. Becoming a young parent motivated her to return to education as an adult. Programme manager, Greater Manchester Trauma Responsive Programme. Pete Turner was adopted at five months and grew up in Bury in a very liberal family that loved me, he says. Social services placed the baby Lemn into long-term foster care, advising the foster family to treat this as adoption. He has been made an Honorary Doctor by the universities of Manchester, Kent, Essex, Huddersfield and Brunel, and in 2019 . It was the end of December 1979 and I was excited when I entered the front room for the family meeting. When my foster parents put me into care, at the age of 12, they said: Were never going to write to you, were never going to come. I could never have imagined that the people who said they were my parents for ever could do such a thing. Marcus Clarke with his new carer on the day he entered NCH Sheringham. If youd asked me as a child, Id be like, Oh, Im adopted but its not a thing. Now he acknowledges that there is probably some degree of separation anxiety as a result of not being with my mother in those crucial first few weeks. Narrated by: Lemn Sissay, Richard Burnip, Zoe Mills Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins Release date: 08-29-19 They were good people who did bad things. It taught me the middle-class way of life: how to lay a table and make a bed and eat with a knife and fork. The answer was often because we are sinners. I am not defined by my scars but by the incredible ability to heal. I know from reading the very brief information I have on my birth parents that my natural mother wanted me to have a better life than she could give me, he says. The car filled with quiet loss. Even this Great Hall, he reminded the audience, had been imagined by an architect before it had been built. See more information Its really horrible.. Born in London, Henry was privately fostered at six months by a wonderful couple in Weston-super-Mare who encouraged her dreams of becoming an actor shes currently starring in Mad House in the West End. Lemn Sissay's traumatic childhood has informed much of the work he has created. From 13, he lived at a Barnardos care home in Ripon, North Yorkshire. Id never thought of myself as a different person., Principal and artistic director of Bird College, Sidcup. There are times, friends say, when he disappears altogether, depression paralysing him for months; times when he folds himself into himself. Lemn Sissay, writer and Chancellor of the University of Manchester, held the Great Hall of Bolton School Girls Division mesmerised during an emotional rollercoaster of an evening. In 1984, at 17, he was sent to Wood End Assessment Centre, a remand home in Wigan. "Margaret Thatcher was my mother," he says, beginning his story. Moving unexpectedly from subject to subject, he thanked the girls for producing such wonderful flags devoted to his poetry which he had seen on the English corridor and said had truly moved him. Thats all I knew. This is Lemn's story, a story of neglect and determination . I had teachers who put me in a box once they knew my background and said, Youll end up doing no good. Reynolds, who contributed to her mother Margarets 2021 book about adoption, The Wild Track, now studies ancient history and social anthropology at St Andrews and is involved in activist groups. Night cant drive out nightOnly the light aboveFear cant drive out fearOnly love. Lemn Sissay is a poet, author and broadcaster who was the official poet of the London Olympics in 2012. ISBN: 9781786892362. Ive forgiven my foster mother. I had nothing to put in the locker by my bed. Johanan Walker enthusiastically nods. Now he works as a theatre-maker working with young and emerging artists, many of whom are also care-experienced. When I was in the childrens homes, for years, I would play table tennis against a wall and imagine I was playing with him. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. Ludford began as a cleaner at Manchester city council before working her way up, earlier this year, to lord mayor. I would narrate the game against Christopher, my invisible brother and Id let him win. It didnt feel like a traumatic experience at the time, but as I got older it dawned on me that an older, white, middle-class woman with seven black children in her house, beating them with a cane, was a bit strange., Author and artistic director/CEO, Bernie Grant Arts Centre, London, I think of my life in two parts: before I traced my birth family and after, says former Guardian journalist Hannah-Azieb Pool, who detailed the journey in her memoir My Fathers Daughter (republished this year). Whilst it served as a telling analogy for his own life, he apologised to anyone fresh to poetry readings as this was a weighty introduction but, he said, I wanted to push you. Wallwein later dramatised her search for her birth mother in the acclaimed one-woman show (later a book) Glue. A decade ago, Clare Gorham was very much pro transracial adoption. My friends. I waited in the kitchen by my mum. I wasnt given anything and nobody contacted me. He's talked before about a later meeting, but this first reunion, on London's South. Thats the number of times he was relocated between 11, when he and his brother were abandoned by their mother, and 17, when he decided he had to pull himself together. His shattering, light-searching memoir, My Name Is Why, is the result. He is also the editor of The Fire People: A Collection of Contemporary Black British Poets (1998), and his work has appeared in many anthologies. His zodiac sign is Gemini. Available in used condition with free delivery in the UK. Lemn Sissay, writer and Chancellor of the University of Manchester, held the Great Hall of Bolton School Girls' Division mesmerised during an emotional rollercoaster of an evening. And so, the poet took the Wigan council to court. Her care experience in West Yorkshire was reasonably positive, partly because I was just happy to have a home. She left you She didnt want you If I find her, I will scratch her eyes out How could she My mums love was elevated by how much she hated my birth mother for leaving me. She lived with a foster family from 12 to 14 and then spent a couple of years in a childrens home. Now she is a lived experience consultant and the co-founder of calling4gr8ness.org, supporting care-experienced young adults in the creative industries. Here are a few organisations for support and information: Become has been supporting and campaigning for children in care and young care leavers since 1985. The result is an inspiring photograph for young people in care today, Introduction by Claire Armitstead. Lemn Sissay is a BAFTA-nominated, award-winning writer and broadcaster. Lemn Sissay was born on 21 May 1967 in Billinge Hospital, near Wigan, Lancashire Higher End, England, UK. Lemn means 'why' in Amharic, the official language of Ethiopia, where celebrated poet Lemn Sissay's mother was from. The memoir was warmly received, though Jenkins, who edits Observer Food Monthly, has mixed feelings about becoming a figurehead for care-experienced people. Im not sure what I think of this, he says, anxiously, before concluding that, if Lemn did it, it must be OK. This is the story of being stolen by the state and his 17 years in local authority care. Other weird things started to happen. Its an incredibly common experience. Thank you. He is in two minds about searching for his birth parents. Healing can hurt too. He was British and Ethiopian. 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