Alaska Dispatch: When you broke your silence and spoke up, was it frightening? Should someone have known something was wrong sooner? Erin Merryn (Author) 139 ratings Kindle Edition $17.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.56 16 Used from $11.22 5 New from $45.35 Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Do I know the difference between the truth and a lie? MORE: Monmouth U. faces federal sexual assault case. Families pressuring loved ones to stay quiet is not uncommon, but as I often like to tell survivors, by speaking up you are not only helping yourself heal; you will help save other children from experiencing this same horror at the hands of their abuser. Children must be taught to tell a trusted adult if anyone touches their private parts. He threatened her to stay silent so she kept her secrets locked away in her childhood diary. Check out Erins third book, An Unimagiable Act. This book describes Erins journey across America to get Erins Law passed and resources for survivors, parents, and educators. Erin Merryn is a powerful speaker and advocate for countless, faceless children and adults in our country who have similarly suffered sexual abuse. 46 reviews. Merryn travels the country bearing witness to what happened to her in hopes of encouraging states to enact laws requiring sexual abuse education in schools. How? Erin is a mom to three little girls. I know that when theres one in four girls and one in six boys (being abused) Im not the only one standing in this room that this has happened to, Erin said of the statistics. I guess what I was trying to ask is, why do you think your abusers chose you instead of some other girl as a target? Merryn, then 6, was excited about her first sleepover with her kindergarten classmate Ashley. She came to me after I had been abused for two years and told me words I never expected to hear, that she too was being abused by the same family member. Read more ALBANY, N.Y. - The Independent Democratic Conference was joined today by Assemblyman Jeff Dinowitz, (D-Bronx), and nationally recognized anti-abuse advocate and survivor Erin Merryn to hail the passage of important legislation to stamp out child sexual abuse in New York. Get hyperlocal forecasts, radar and weather alerts. Erin wrote that letter. Children learn all kinds of safety lessons in schools, like how to deal with natural disasters, fires and strangers. People would be amazed how many people this really does affect and that they know but have never come forward. However, she said theabuseand rape continueduntil she was almost nine. Erin Merryn is author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. Erin Merryn's memoir is about how her life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted."I thought when the abuse stopped I could move on with my life. Erin wanted nothing more than to make him feel the hurt that she did. Now she's on a quest to make sure lawmakers across America hear what she has to stay. In the end, he was given seven years of probation, 1,000 hours of community service, he attended a two-year sex offender program, and couldnt come within 100 feet of Erin or her sister. Nightmares and flashbacks continued, and she started harming herself. The cousin used the same tactic as her first abuser telling her no one would believe her and there was no proof. Erin Merryn Mar 2004 - Present18 years 7 months Chicago, IL Erin is an author, writer, and activist. Erin first gained public attention for this cause when she self-published her first book while still a senior in high school in Schaumburg IL, entitled: Stolen Innocence: Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir. The only message I got as a child came from my abusers and that was to stay silent or else, she said. (Josh Rultenberg/Spectrum News 1), California Consumer Limit the Use of My Sensitive Personal Information, California Consumer Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information, The Ohio Senate is considering a bill to teach elementary, middle and high school students how to protect themselves from sexual predators, Erins Law is named after Erin Merryn who was sexually abused as a child, Thirty-seven states have passed Erins Law and Merryn has tried three times in seven years to get the bill passed in Ohio, House Bill 105 overwhelmingly passed the Ohio House a year ago. MORE: Cancer-surviving mom stays strong for her son. It would have given me courage to know that I didn't have to live in constant fear that they could hurt me, and hurt me even worse if I told anyone. You have permission to edit this article. When I was six years old, I was sexually abused at a neighbor's house. Little did I realize, that by moving, I was getting that much closer to the next perpetrator in my life, she said. Winds NW at 5 to 10 mph. No one will believe you, Erin. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which is a group advocating for child sexual abuse awareness. Instead of putting their daughters through further emotional trauma of a criminal trial, Erins parents decided not to press charges. Instead I am still running from Brian. Alaska Dispatch: Resiliency can be an important factor in how well survivors of abuse cope and in whether they go on to lead a healthy, happy life. She published a book called Bailey No Ordinary Cat that showcases Bailey's unusually gentle interactions with her three children. Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. One thing my abusers kept telling me was that I had no proof that they were hurting me, so why would anyone believe me? Of course I was asked what I was referring to and I said my cousin Brian has been doing bad things. It is currently passed in 37 states as of January 2021. (Slaven Vlasic/Getty Images) Her testimony was met with a standing ovation. I can remember that as if it happened yesterday. The brilliant minds behind putting in place a center that had a home away from home feeling to give children a sense of security and comfort.At thirteen was the age I walked through the CAC. Have there been times in your life when haven't done well? She broke down and cried and said Erin's Law could have saved her as a child, but instead she only got the message from her abuser, who she knew, and stayed silent. My sister and I were the only girls that he was around all the time. The reality is, 93 percent of the time it is not strangers that are hurting kids. He was given probation and counseling., Forgiveness is what set me free, she said. ", Merryn's family, including her two sisters, moved to another neighborhood in the same town when Merryn was 8, and she stopped seeing Ashley. Alaska Dispatch: Let's talk about two words we hear a lot when covering sexual abuse stories: victim and survivor. Silence Broken and Stigmas Shattered -- Help for Incest Survivors Is Here Fans of Erin Merryn's heart-wrenching debut memoir Stolen Innocence were left wondering at the end what would become of an emotionally fragile Erin after her confrontation with the reality of being a child of incest and molestation. This law could have given me the ability to know I would be believed, that this is not a secret to keep, and how to report it. Carrot has 281,000 instagram followers. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with . If you tell anybody, you will destroy our family, she said.. Erin also included the correspondence between her cousin and herself, for readers to also hear the perpetrator's side. Merryn believes more can be done to ensure children also learn how learn how to protect themselves from sexual predators. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual abuse. Again, she started having trouble in school, becoming distant and withdrawn. I will come get you, I know where you live, Erin recalled. He was the father of my best friend. Merryn (whose other books are Stolen Innocence and Living for Today), the mother of a toddler girl, says this is a conversation parents must have every year and often. I found hope and healing there and people that believed me. They dont warn us about our own family, they dont teach us that in school, her age 12 entry stated. How do you identify? So far, her story has inspired many kids to speak up about abuse, and that has led to more predators put behind bars. After an evening of playing with Ashley's dollhouse and watching The Little Mermaid, the girls went to bed in Ashley's room. Forgiveness is what set me free. Putting the lives of children in danger and possibly taking their innocence is worth it? I was keeping this secret with my best friend because he was also abusing her, Merryn said. On this Wikipedia the language links are at the top of the page across from the article title. Sexually abused as a. "It's something that is going to be with me the rest of my life," Erin said. It was a detailed account of how an officer came to her school to talk about stranger danger. [7] She published her diary detailing her cousin's abuse and her own recovery, relapse and reconciliation in book form as Stolen Innocence in 2005. Erin said all she ever learnedin school was aboutstranger danger. But knowing it was not strangers who abused her,she has made it her mission as an adult to make sure kids in K-12 schoolsacross the countryonce a year learnfroma school psychologist or social workerabout personal body safety education. Alaska Dispatch: Would something like what you are proposing -- Erin's Law -- have helped you? I wish I could say that Erins story is uncommon, but that is far from the truth its happening right here in our own backyard, Bucco said. As a young child from 6 to 8 (years old), when the neighbor was abusing me, he warned me if I told anyone he would come get me; he knew where I lived. Behind those numbers are the faces of innocent children whose childhoods were shattered by actions of evil and sickness. A safe touch could be a high five or hug and an unsafe touch is someone touching you in the areas covered by your swimsuit, or your private parts, Merryn said. (2012) Fox News Self - Author of 'An Unimaginable Act'. Erin's Law is the first US child sexual abuse prevention education law requiring children be educated in schools. I am so confident I will get this law passed in all 50 states, because God has already told me it will happen. Erins ongoing abuse with her friends uncle was over. Choosing to forgive has led me to live for today.. Winds WNW at 10 to 15 mph.. Erin said they just wanted to make sure their nephew got help. The areas covered by your swimsuit are not for anyone to be touching, unless mommy and daddy are helping you with a bath. I left all the fragmented sentences, misspelled words, because I wanted readers to hear the voice of a young child.. Author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today The fact that a motel is not telling families that sex offenders are living there should be a crime, Merryn said. But what followed was depression,an eating disorder and a suicide attempt. Is there anything about your life circumstances that you think made you a target? Children are taught that the police are their to keep their communities safe and lock up the bad people. Erin Merryn born February 2 1985 is the author of Stolen Innocence Living for Today An Unimaginable Act Bailey No Ordinary Cat and The Diary of a Cat. Says Merryn: "[Ashley] made me pinky promise not to say anything. [3] According to her personal account, she told her parents about the latter after her sister confided that she had also been abused by the same relative. will then mail or hand the parents or responsible adult family member the Megans Law information. Here's a glimpse of her life and why she's on a quest for social change. Almost all states that have passed it are using the program, while some states are deciding how their schools will implement It into the curriculum.. Erin Merryn, Stolen Innocence: Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir 0 likes Like "Brian, this letter is probably coming as a complete surprise to you, but I didn't feel I should warn you since you never warned me when you were going to use my body for own damn pleasures. I sat next to a woman who I had just met moments earlier in the waiting room with my sister and mom. Merryn is now taking her fight to the state of Alabama. What factors came together for you to be able to not only overcome what happened, but to also thrive? And for the next year and a half, repeatedly told me, This is our little secret. He doesnt sleep out ever. Innocence lost. You seem incredibly resilient. But when it came to being sexually abused, there was nothing. It is when they hear my story of how I was raped, and how my abusers controlled the situation by being the only ones talking to me about what was happening, that they "get it." Merryn: I didn't expect a response back from my cousin because my letter was very harsh filled with so much anger and rage. --TV host Katie Couric, 1992, 2002, and 2006 Woman of the Year.After suffering years of sexual abuse for six years of her childhood Erin broke her silence when she was 13 at a Children's Advocacy Center. In 2008, Erin decided to step up her efforts to protect children nationwide and started writing state legislators to ask them to pass laws requiring schools to better educate children, school employees and parents how to prevent and stop child sexual abuse. Alaska Dispatch: Thank you for reminding us that abuse happens across all socioeconomic conditions. Her older cousin sexually abused her from 11-13 years old. Here's how to protect your kids from online predators. We live in a society that doesn't want to even address this issue. Her courage breaking her silence allowed me to take a stand for both of us and be brave and tell her we can't keep this a secret, that we have to tell our parents. Merryn was as bewildered as she was frightened. She has appeared on Oprah, Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox, MSNBC, TLC documentary Breaking the Silence, CBS This Morning, Katie Couric, Tamaron Hall, 700 Club, and over 200 local media stations. Two days later, their cousin was brought into the police station. But at age 11, Merryn's second nightmare began. Erin Merryn is a 21-year-old college sophomore who wrote a book, "Stolen Innocence: Memoir," about her struggles after she claims she was molested by her first cousin. Sorry, there are no recent results for popular videos. Walking up to a door with so many racing thoughts afraid I was not going to be believed, wondering what I was going to be asked, and so ashamed to even think about sharing the dirty secrets. Has anything particularly heartened you? She didn't want to stop visiting her friend but tried to find times when Richard wasn't around. You will be believed.. The law has now passed in 37 states. Erins Law is a tax-exempt 501(c)(4) non-profit organization. The revelation caused tension in the family. It allowed me to let go of the bitterness, anger and rage I had toward him and find the freedom and peace I longed for and the ability to turn this painful event into something positive. The look in this mans eyes, the color shirt he was wearing and the last thing he said to me, Dont you dare tell anybody. I found myself locked in bedrooms, basements, bathrooms, a car, garage and repeatedly assaulted by my cousin.. It was just the beginning of a long journey. Unfortunately for many survivors they never see their perpetrators held accountable. In 2010, Merryn helped create Erin's Law, which was the first law to be passed in the U.S. that required children to be taught sexual abuse prevention in school. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me," said Merryn. If they feel they are in danger or in an uncomfortable situation, they can call home and use the code word, something as simple as, I forgot my math homework at school. . She is the force behind passing Erin's Law across America. IG: The_Cat_Named_Carrot.Ellen is Carrot's biggest fan. Merryn found her voice at 13 when her younger sister said the words she'll never forget: "Brian's gross!" It turned out cousin Brian was abusing Merryn's little sister, too. Erin Merryn is an author, activist, speaker, wife, and mom to young human children and a fur baby named Bailey. She has made it her mission in life to get this legislation passed in all 50 states. It allowed me to go on this mission to be a face and voice for millions by letting go of hatred and instead turning pain into a purpose. According to Merryn, every school gets the option to pick a Erins Law program, and have an outside agency teach. Every six minutes a child is sexually abused in the U.S. One in every 4 girls and 6 boys will be sexually assaulted before the turn 18 over 90% by a family member or friend. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erins Law. But both she and her sister did tell their stories. Nightmares. I got five sentences to my five pages, but he responded and it opened a door of communication, she said. My second abuser, my cousin, came from a family of all boys. She explained to her cousin that she didnt want to publish it out of revenge, rather to help the millions of other sexual assault survivors. Her name is Erin Merryn and she is the founder of Erins Law. Erin said the abuse stopped after her sister spoke up about her own abuse. After her parents decided to move Erin's abuse ended but only brought her that much closer to her next abuser, an older teenage cousin who lived . Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Merryn spoke to members of the Ohio SenatePrimary and Secondary Education Committee of how she was sexually abused as a child. Erin Merryn is an author (Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act), activist, and founder of Erin's Law. Bad things happen to children all the time, the Garden State may soon benefit from Merryns harrowing experience, knowledge and hope, Your California Privacy Rights/Privacy Policy. Merryn realized he had been molesting her sister too. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her terrible secret. I had all the warning signs of an abused kid -- labeled behavior(ally) and emotionally disturbed, given an IEP (Individual Education Plan) for that behavior, I had anger problems, put my hand through a window weeks after being raped at 7 years old and threw tantrums on the floors in school. It was the first federal bill passed funding sexual abuse prevention education. Motel management is NOT obligated to tell guests sex offenders are next door. But many schools, she said, are using faculty social workers and psychologists because research shows its better taught by in-house staff then outside agencies. At a family gathering at her grandparents' lake house, she awoke in the middle of the night to find her cousin "Brian" (again, not his real name), then 13 . A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Erin has worked diligently to lobby every state to pass Erin's Law, beginning with her home state of Illinois in 2009. Merryn worked with U.S. Who were they? Merryn says a few months ago, a local . After graduating with Bachelors and Masters Degrees in social work from Western Illinois and Aurora Universities in 2008 and 2009, Health Communications published her second book, Living for Today: From Incest and Molestation to Fearlessness and Forgiveness. Download it here. Erin's Law, named after Erin Merryn, has passed in 36 states and is pending in the other 14. By speaking up even when family is against the idea, it is freedom for a survivor and allows them to reclaim a piece of their lives back. She shows no signs of fatigue, and she seems ready. He got us quiet and continued to get away with it. When Erin Merryn was a child, she was sexually abused by two people she knew and trusted, including a family member. She is an activist against child sexual abuse. The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County, Ill. (there are 900 of these centers across America in every state), helped give me the courage in my forensic interview after my sister and I broke our silence to tell what had happened. Was this just bad luck? Donors may not deduct contributions made to Erins Law under IRC Section 170 (c) (2). Check out pictures, bibliography, and biography of Erin Merryn She also pointed out the real loss of innocence for a child is when they are sexually abused and nothing is done about it. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. The first abuser, our neighbor, is someone I think who did this to any girl he had access to. In a Q&A with Alaska Dispatch before boarding her flight north, Merryn wasn't shy about sharing the difficulties she's experienced, including a suicide attempt, or the one thing that happened to make her finally tell someone she was being hurt. All rights reserved. Here's How We Amplify It | National Children's Alliance", "Erin Merryn Fights for Law to Help Child Sexual Assault Victims", "Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger", "State Senate Passes Erin Merryn's Law Aimed at Child Sex Abuse Prevention", "Survivor Recalls Alleged Incest in Book", "Child Sexual Abuse Survivor Gets Law Passed", https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Erin_Merryn&oldid=1132623568, Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License 3.0, This page was last edited on 9 January 2023, at 19:15. Unfortunately, children who are abused once are at even higher risk of being abused again by someone else because they are vulnerable and easy to prey on. No one is allowed in the bathroom with you not even your friend. My sister and I told our parents the next day (and) we were referred to the Children's Advocacy Center by police detectives to be interviewed. ABC News agreed to use her pen name and a false name for the man she says abused her. But instead of destroying it, she ended up emailing her five-page account of anger and rage to her cousin, who was now attending college. Erin Merryn's memoir is about how her life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted."I thought when the abuse stopped I could move on with my life. Merryn's experiences belie the more common parental fears of "stranger danger." Merryn successfully passed it in her state of Illinois in 2013 and has been traveling from one state capital to another testifying to state lawmakers to . She was afraid she would be a burden to her cousin and that no one would believe her. I went to bed night after night crying into my pillow having nightmares, and keeping my secrets locked away in my childhood diary., Merryn found her voice at 13 when her younger sister said the words shell never forget: Brians gross!. We've had an unprecedented change for our Gingerbread House Partners in Prevention 2021 Luncheon and we couldn't be more excited! Confronting him empowered me and eventually allowed me to forgive him when he wrote a letter apologizing. I also encourage parents to have a code word with their kids, she said. It would be many more years until that voice would become the strong, confident woman that I have become. After describing the difference between the truth and a lie I was asked if I agreed to tell the truth that day. Then, after seven months of back-and-forths, he wrote a heartfelt apology to Erin and asking for her forgiveness, but also understanding if she couldnt forgive him. After reading that letter, a switch flipped inside Erin. After graduating, Erin went on to earn her Masters degree in social work, but from time to time she would still consult her little pink childhood diary. The voice that was silenced for so long. Pat Quinn on Thursday signed a new law extending sexual abuse education in Illinois schools. I didnt want to talk to anyone about this. Who encouraged you to keep talking, to keep fighting? She kept quiet, but behavior problems soon followed. Erin Elizabeth heard over the years from 11-13 "Nobody will believe you, you have no proof, you will destroy our large extended family, this is our secret don't tell anyone." My mission, through this legislation, is to educate children on what I never learned. But where were the eight ways on how to "get away and tell today?" For so many years I stayed angry and bitter towards him. The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). I had only ever been told no one (would) believe me, I feared ruining our large extended family when they learned a family member (teenage cousin) was molesting my sister and I. Sixteen years ago, on March 29, 1998, my sister broke her silence to me. There is a misconception about this issue many people think sexual abuse only happens to the poor, to people who come from broken homes, etc. Merryn cautions that you can never just go by how many registered sex offenders are in your area. She also wantsteachers andstafftrained on the topic. I also learned in group how to create a safe place to escape to when memories flooded my memory.While I was not ready at thirteen and fourteen to immediately share the journey of what all I went through because I was still too ashamed the Children's Advocacy Center laid the foundation in my healing to one day let that voice be heard. Realizing I was not a fault and learning to let go of the guilt. So far 27 states have passed Erins Law since 2010. Caught you off guard? It wasnt until Erin was 13 and found out the same thing was happening to her little sister (then age 11), that she decided she needed to speak out. In it, Erin chronicles how she cultivated the strength to face her abuser and eventually found relief from years of emotional restlessness, while also igniting the beginnings of a new fearless journey. (See Gary Glitter's sex scandal.). 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How did you find this voice? 4 mos. Merryn travels the country advocating for children who are victims of sexual assault. Glamour magazine named Merryn Woman of the Year 2012, and People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world and a HEROES Among us in 2013.[9]. Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. Erin Merryn is among the many that came across the story. Later, just weeks before her seventh birthday, she was raped by the same man. My sister and I both left with stuffed animals and feeling like our secret was now in good hands. It just turned into a screaming match between my mom and his mom, your son did this, your girls are liars, remembered Erin. Only this time, the person behind it was her older cousin, a nice young man with a bright future to whom she looked at as the brother she never had.. When Merryn eventually confided in Ashley about what had happened, her friend was not surprised; in fact, the scene was depressingly familiar to her. Merryn advocates for sexual abuse victims. In 2014 People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world along with Oprah and Hillary Clinton. Named by PEOPLE Magazine a HEROES Among us and one of fifteen women changing the world. After it was republished by Health Communications in early 2005, she began traveling the nation telling her story about the sexual abuse she endured at hundreds of high schools, colleges, sexual assault centers, child abuse conferences and community events. The bill had already passed the House . I remember walking out into the parking lot and feeling this sense of relief.Seven months later I would return back for the first time since my interview to begin a group with other girls who were survivors in January 1999. I was abused. High near 60F. 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